Lots of interesting commentary on the comics blogs over the past few days about She Was Asking For It,by Lianne and NotHayama, which critiques the submissive female characters in some shoujo manga aimed at older teens.
These series feature possessive and controlling men, young girls who find male domination a standard and a turn-on, and the concept that sex is something only men initiate.
Responses to the essay have been varied. On Cognitive Dissonance, Johanna Draper Carlson makes an excellent point:
The authors of that essay seem to miss the basic point that presenting something in a story isn’t the same as justifying it.
Over on Comics 212, Chris Butcher counters that
there are some folks, male and female, who determine gender roles and take relationship advice from manga, for good or for ill.
He links to a discussion by Radio Comics publisher Elin Winkler about her experiences in fandom to back up his statement.
I think they’re all right. As a middle-aged mom, settled in a happy marriage, I can take these manga for what they are, fiction. But as a teenager, I constantly measured myself against my friends, my teen magazines, the TV, to figure out what was normal and whether I matched it. I don’t think I was unusual in this regard; whole industries have been built on it (see: advertising, teen magazines). The problem isn’t so much what is written as how it’s read—as fiction or as a prescription for life.
The younger the reader, the more crucial this distinction becomes. I find many of the girls portrayed in younger children’s shoujo manga are way too eager to please. This is not an overtly sexual issue, but Tohru Honda in “Fruits Basket” and Belldandy in “Oh My Goddess!” both seem to believe that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. And Yukino, in “Kare Kano,” submits briefly to blackmail, then throws it off (good girl!) and starts a romance with her blackmailer (eh?). Often the boys are protective, but sometimes their behavior borders on the abusive, and the girls seem to accept it.
On the one hand, I’m concerned that my daughters will absorb, even unconsciously, the notion that they should be sweet and submissive and do all the housework. On the other hand, I haven’t seen that happen yet. (If anything, they swing to the other extreme, especially where housework is concerned.) So I’m not pulling the books away. We talk about manga a lot these days, so I have plenty of opportunities for counter-propaganda. Plus they have plenty of stronger role models in the world they live in, which I believe hold more sway than the characters on the printed page.
So, ban shoujo manga? No. Be aware of the messages? You bet, and that’s what I think the authors of the original essay were saying. My daughters will probably eventually read some of the manga cited as “dangerous.” In my experience, it’s pointless to try to ban a book. But I will suggest they measure what they read against what they observe in the real world. Hopefully they’ll already be in that habit by then.